A helper, not a counsellor

Someone to listen properly, and help you make sense of what drives you.

I'm Eugenio. I offer Enneagram sessions for individuals and couples, to help them understand themselves and each other, using the Enneagram, a map of what motivates people beneath their behaviour. I listen first, and I'm clear about what this work is, and what it isn't.

A warm, quiet table set for an unhurried conversation

Who you'd be sitting with

Grounded in listening, not labels

I call myself a helper because it's the honest word. I'm not a therapist, and I don't pretend to be. What I offer is careful attention, a framework that makes patterns visible, and the judgement to know when something needs more than I can give.

Enneagram accreditation

Levels 1 & 2, Integrative9. Participating Member of the International Enneagram Association.

Ontological Coaching

Trained with Ontological Coaching South Africa: how language, mood and body shape the way we see things.

Listening volunteer

I volunteer as a listener with Samaritans. It's where I've learned most about sitting with people and simply hearing them.

I'm also training as a counsellor (CPCAB Level 2 complete, now at Level 3), and I hold myself to the BACP ethical framework. How I work ethically →

Ways to work together

Enneagram sessions for individuals and couples

Individuals

Understand your core motivation, what you do under pressure, and why some patterns keep repeating. Not a label, but a working map of yourself, and some kindness towards it.

Assessment & report from £19 · with a session £69

About one-to-one sessions →

Couples

The same argument in different clothes? Each of you takes the assessment, then we sit down together so the friction stops feeling personal and starts making sense.

Two assessments & reports £38 · with a joint session £89

About sessions for couples →

The idea

You're not the problem. You're wired a certain way.

Most of us know our patterns. The ones we repeat, the ones that frustrate us, the ones the people closest to us have pointed out more than once. What's usually missing isn't willpower. It's a clear enough picture of what's driving the pattern.

The Enneagram gives you that picture. Seen that way, a habit stops being a character flaw and becomes something you can understand, and work with.

How it works

Unhurried, and at your pace

1. A conversation, not a quiz

You take an adaptive, conversational Enneagram assessment. It responds to what you say rather than ticking boxes.

2. Your report

A full personal report: your core motivations, strengths, blind spots and growth path. You decide whether it rings true.

3. We sit down together

A 50-minute session to talk through what it means for your life, or your relationship, right now.

What clients say

Real reports, real reactions

Eugenio, accredited Enneagram practitioner

About

A quiet room in the Blackdown Hills

Sessions take place at my home practice in Otterford, in the Blackdown Hills of Somerset. It's a calm place, away from the everyday, which suits the kind of unhurried conversation this work needs.

I don't label anyone. You identify your own type, and you decide what's useful. If something you bring needs more than I can ethically offer, I'll say so and help you find the right support.

More about me

Why I call myself a helper, not a counsellor →

Would it help to talk?

No pitch. Just a conversation about what you're hoping for, and whether this is the right fit.

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